Things That Kill Sex in a Long-Term Relationship — Dennis Collins

In the beginning, sex feels easy.
Connection is natural.
Desire flows effortlessly.
Touch feels alive, playful, electric.

But as the years pass — stress, routine, resentment, emotional drift, and unmet needs slowly chip away at intimacy.

You wake up one day and realize something’s missing.
Her desire is gone.
Your confidence is shaken.
The spark that once felt automatic now feels like work.

Men across the US, UK, Canada, Australia, and everywhere long-term relationships turn complex struggle with the same quiet questions:

What happened to us?
Why doesn’t she want me like she used to?
Is it me?
Is it her?
Can this be fixed… or is this just how marriage becomes?

The truth?
Sex doesn’t die from age or time.
It dies from emotional patterns that slowly suffocate desire.

And most men have no idea they’re participating in these patterns.

“Things That Kill Sex in a Long-Term Relationship — Dennis Collins” pulls back the curtain on the unspoken dynamics that destroy intimacy — not overnight, but drip by drip, argument by argument, avoidance by avoidance.

Dennis helps you see the invisible forces that kill desire:

• emotional disconnection
• chronic stress and over-functioning
• Nice Guy caretaking
• lack of masculine leadership
• resentment left unresolved
• people-pleasing that erases polarity
• unspoken expectations and hidden tension
• the “roommate dynamic”
• emotional inconsistency that breaks trust
• pressure for sex that kills desire instantly

This session isn’t about blaming you or blaming her.
It’s about finally understanding what’s really happening beneath the surface so you can make the shifts that actually matter.

Drawn from years of men’s confidence coaching, intimacy coaching for men, marriage communication, and relationship repair for men dealing with drifting, cold, or sexless marriages, Dennis shows you how desire is created — and how it dies when the emotional foundation collapses.

After listening, you’ll be able to:

• Identify the subtle behaviors that kill sexual desire without you ever noticing.
• Rebuild intimacy through presence, not pressure or performance.
• Lead your relationship with steady masculine confidence.
• Create emotional safety that lets desire grow naturally again.
• Stop habits that weaken trust, polarity, and attraction.
• Strengthen your marriage connection by addressing what actually matters.
• Rebuild your self-worth by showing up as a grounded, emotionally mature man.

When a man finally sees the real killers of desire, everything shifts:

He stops blaming himself.
He stops blaming her.
He stops guessing.
He starts leading.

Her guard lowers.
Her body softens.
The emotional gap shrinks.
And connection starts to return — slowly at first, then with growing warmth.

Because sex doesn’t vanish by accident.
And it can come back when you understand what took it.

If you’re ready to revive intimacy by addressing the real causes, listen now or access this session through your subscription.