If Your Wife Does This…Your Sex Life Probably Stinks
What is the one bad habit your wife may be doing to totally screw up your sex life?
She successfully emasculates you.
What does that mean?
It means she uses her feminine energy…usually the part that is rooted in fear and anxiety…to minimize you and your natural masculine desire to connect at a close, loving, affectionate and intimate level.
It might be surgical insults, put downs, criticisms or even dramatic eye-rolling followed by exasperated sighs of disgust.
I know you know what I’m talking about. Every man does.
But here’s the secret.
She’s not trying to be a horrible wife. She’s just practicing what her mother taught her…and her mother…and her mother.
Many wives have been marinated in the toxic thinking that “men only want one thing”…and as soon as they get it, they’ll disappear.
They have been taught skills they’ve been practicing ever since kindergarten. It’s simply about self-protection and trying to maintain personal space, safety and, later…total control of the situation.
And, here’s another secret.
She doesn’t really WANT to do it and she wouldn’t do if you weren’t the kind of man who ALLOWS it to happen.
I know. Ouch. But what’s that mean?
Check out my video first to go deeper.
What is it in a man that allows others to emasculate him?
It’s a detachment from a pervasive, consistent sense of:
- Your personal honor, integrity and sovereignty
- Your inherent worthiness and value as a man in the world – including your sexuality and romantic desires
- Your ability to empower yourself to self-approve and self-validate without feeling victimized by others who try to convince you otherwise
- Your spiritual sense of confidence and “chronic daily okayness”
When a woman KNOWS that YOU KNOW those things are absolute, her attempts to emasculate you become comical!
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Q: Why does my wife keep emasculating me or putting me down?
A: Because fear is running the show—not hate. Most women learned early that controlling or minimizing men feels safer than trusting them. She’s not trying to destroy you. She’s trying to protect herself. The real shift begins when you stop reacting and start leading with calm, grounded strength.
Q: What does it mean to be “emasculated” in marriage?
A: It means losing connection to your own masculine center—your honor, worth, and sovereignty. You start second-guessing yourself, seeking approval, and shrinking your energy to keep the peace. Reclaiming that power isn’t about dominating her—it’s about remembering who you are and acting from self-respect.
Q: How do I stop my wife from disrespecting me?
A: You can’t control her behavior—but you can change what you allow. Quietly reinforce your boundaries with calm confidence. Don’t argue, plead, or punish. Lead yourself. When she feels you’re rooted in self-respect, her instinct to test or control you naturally fades.
Q: What causes a woman to lose respect or attraction for her husband?
A: Inconsistency. When a man says one thing but lives another, she stops trusting his strength. Emotional safety for her starts with your self-respect. She wants to feel your certainty—not your compliance. Respect begins to return when your words and actions align.
Q: How can I rebuild attraction after years of criticism or distance?
A: Stop defending yourself and start embodying your values. Attraction isn’t about convincing—it’s about energy. When you show up relaxed, purposeful, and unshakably okay, she feels safe to soften. The more secure you become within yourself, the more her guard drops.
Q: What’s the biggest mistake men make when trying to fix a disrespectful relationship?
A: They focus on changing her instead of transforming themselves. Real leadership is quiet, consistent, and self-directed. When you become a man who validates himself and lives by his own compass, the entire relationship dynamic shifts. She follows your lead—because she finally trusts it.
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