How A Confident Husband Seduces His Wife Without Feeling Like A Failure
Did you get married and then make the mistake that I, and a few million other men make?
Did you think that the very act of getting married gave you a kitchen pass from dating your wife. In other words, did you suddenly stop “trying so hard” to make her want to be with you?
You wouldn’t be alone. Most of us get lazy and most of us tend to relax once we think we’ve got the deal all locked in.
Seduction is not about the art of picking up strange women. Seduction is about the art of creating and maintaining feelings of positive emotional tension, including sexual tension.
Coach Garrett goes deeper with his email message below.
If you’ve become stuck in your ability to seduce your wife, I highly recommend you do something drastic sooner than later.
For most guys, it would be DRASTIC to sign up for a course focusing on the most important part of being a man in relationship.
And THAT is CONFIDENCE.
Coach Garrett Prettyman and Mark Drezga are starting a new round of this popular and effective program – the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course.
Men raised in the last few decades have been taught a warped lesson in what it means to be a man in a marriage. This course will help you reset your thinking, make you a better leader and give you a sense of peace and confidence that has probably been missing.
Do something you’ve never done. Join a small group of men who are permanently changing their lives for the better.
Here’s Garrett.
I’m going to reveal some secrets to building erotic intimacy with your wife or girlfriend by mastering seduction.
Perhaps you have a fairytale version of love in your mind.
In this fairytale, your wife or girlfriend is magically affectionate, intimate, and sexual with you for 60 years… All because you’re such an easy-going, great guy!
This rarely happens.
Like it or not, seduction is a game.
Do you feel a negative reaction when you think of “players” who are good with women?
Don’t think of playing the “game” as being a slimy manipulator who tricks women into liking him.
Think of playing as something that is FUN for both of you.
If you’ve ever had passionate sex, you are already a player in the game of seduction.
The OUTSIDE Game Of Seduction
Pickup artists use OUTSIDE game to meet and have sex with new women effectively.
These men know how to tease, be mysterious, and make her feel understood.
They get her desires burning through playfulness.
The female mind loves the tease, temptation, emotions, and illusion of freedom that OUTSIDE game provides.
However, if you do not have INSIDE game, new women you seduce with OUTSIDE game will eventually break up with you.
They will realize it was all smoke and mirrors.
The INSIDE Game Of Seduction
INSIDE game is all about the vibe your behaviors give off under pressure.
Your inner maturity, confidence, self-esteem, vulnerability, and masculine frame are part of your INSIDE game.
Without a rock-solid INSIDE game, your wife won’t feel safe opening her heart to you.
She won’t feel like she can trust you with her emotions.
She will feel like the relationship has no depth.
Many younger women become infatuated with “bad boys.”
They assume if his OUTSIDE game feels confident, then his INSIDE game must be very secure, strong, and competent.
Sadly, most women who marry “bad boys” realize down the road that his INSIDE game is that of insecurity, self-doubt, and need for validation.
Many women who have been burned by a “bad boy” will latch on to a “nice guy” next.
They assume the “nice guy” will have what the “bad boy” lacks.
Sadly, most women who marry “nice guys” lose sexual attraction for him.
His softness, wishy-washiness, aversion to conflict, and lack of boundaries feel boyish and feminine to her.
Women crave to be desired by a man, not a boy.
How You Will Master Seduction
Your wife needs to be seduced again and again.
She needs to bounce between your INSIDE game and your OUTSIDE game weekly for the rest of your life.
On the days she’s drawn to your INSIDE game, she loves how her mood can’t rattle you.
Her complaints are met with your empathy.
When she brings up the past, you show understanding without getting defensive.
You like who you are being.
You trust your intentions, and she can sense your secure vibe.
On days she’s drawn to your OUTSIDE game, she’s loving that you’re sending her flirty texts during the day.
You’re giving her a wink and squeeze on the shoulder, and buying her favorite coffee.
In other words, you are living your best life and she’s feeling the invitation to join.
I sucked at both INSIDE and OUTSIDE game badly.
I’ve made it my mission to learn and teach men both.
In our Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course, Mark Drezga and I get raw and personal with you on how to be a masculine man.
You already have the traits for INSIDE & OUTSIDE game hard-coded into your DNA.
All of us adopted some faulty beliefs about masculine and feminine that need to be re-written.
Mark and I will help you spot the mindsets that make you feel indecisive, unclear, wishy-washy, and unattractive towards women.
This way, you can be naturally good at the game of seduction.
An Offer To Good To Pass Up
Mark and I packed a lot of the most potent things we’ve learned into the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course.
The cost is only two monthly payments of $424.
We’ve had many conversations about raising the price to match the value of the course.
If you want the best value for your money in improving your relationship, this is it.
More important than your financial investment is your personal investment.
Below are 4 ways to tell if this course will help you.
Are you a man who is…
- Willing to take constructive feedback
- Willing to laugh at your past mistakes
- Willing to follow through on reading and homework assignments
- Willing to turn down her offers for sex
That last point might sound strange, but you’ll find out why in the course.
If you answered “yes” to the 4 questions above, then you need to join!
Click HERE to pay and save your spot.
Use coupon Code STRONG to get a 10% discount before July 27th!
Registration closes August 3rd and our first session will be August 17th at 5:00 PM Pacific.
We’ll see you in the course!
Q: Why do so many men lose sexual spark after marriage?
A: Because they stop dating their wives. After marriage, most men relax and think the work is done—but seduction never stops. It’s not about pickup lines or tricks; it’s about keeping positive emotional tension alive. Women crave the energy of a man who keeps things playful, mysterious, and alive.
Q: What’s the difference between “outside” and “inside” game?
A: Outside game is how you flirt, tease, and create fun tension—the art of attraction. Inside game is your emotional strength—your calm confidence, integrity, and self-respect. Without inside game, your outside moves feel hollow. True seduction requires both: charm and grounded masculinity.
Q: Why do “nice guys” lose attraction with their wives?
A: Because they trade polarity for approval. They avoid conflict, soften their edges, and try to please their way into affection. But a woman can’t relax into her feminine energy around a man who acts like a boy. She needs your firmness, boundaries, and self-assured presence to feel safe and turned on.
Q: How does mastering seduction strengthen your marriage?
A: When you embody both inside and outside game, she feels both safe and excited. Your calm, steady leadership gives her emotional security. Your playful, flirty side rekindles attraction. She feels seen, desired, and inspired—and you feel powerful again as her lover, not just her roommate.
Q: Can confidence really be learned?
A: Absolutely. Confidence is not a personality trait—it’s a practice. It comes from clear values, self-respect, and consistent action. In the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course, you’ll rewrite old beliefs, learn masculine boundaries, and build the natural confidence that turns attraction into lasting connection.
Q: How do I know if this course is right for me?
A: If you’re willing to take feedback, laugh at your mistakes, follow through, and challenge yourself to grow—you’re ready. Confidence, polarity, and sexual leadership can all be learned. You just have to take the wheel again, brother.
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