Finding Strength When You’re Facing Divorce
Finding strength when you’re facing divorce can feel impossible because the emotions are so overwhelming. We support men to build that inner strength so that you can feel confident in how you respond to one of the most difficult and stressful live situations.
The men in our community are going through some of the most difficult and painful times of their lives.
These men have just heard a declaration from their wife like “I need space”, or they’ve already separated or are in the throes of divorce. These men are learning to be strong, happy and confident regardless.
The 3 Truths Men Facing Divorce Need To Hear:
- You will get through this.
- You will not die.
- You will be okay.
How do we know that?
In our online course, we dive deep into where your sense of security, strength, confidence, and “OKAYNESS” really lives.
We know you’ll be okay because at this very moment, brother, you ARE okay.
Your Inherent Masculine Value Is Already Inside You
Your unique gifts and impact you have yet to make on the world is also already inside you.
Yes, the storm you’re facing may be a “sh*t show”. It’s happening, yes… But it’s not happening TO YOU.
You’re built for this and you will survive. Even though a ship is safer in the harbor…it’s not what they were built for.
Same goes for you. You were built to last – built to survive. And built to THRIVE. And you will. You just need to remember who you are and how you’re built.
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That is really all you need to know to sail confidently through the storm with strength and self-respect…and without dying.
If you need help with knowing HOW to sail better, we’re ready to teach you that.
“I recently signed up for your “How to Diffuse the Divorce Bomb”. I have found it incredibly helpful and I am astonished how accurate you are with my own situation. [Steve and Tim] have made me feel that I am not alone going through this and the support has been invaluable. I am excited about being a stronger more confident man. I’m only at the beginning of my new journey but I already feel more confident and free.” ~ How To Diffuse The Divorce Bomb Member
Every time we get an email like the one above, we think: there are too many guys out there who are suffering alone and they don’t have to!
We HAVE To Get This Help And Support To More Men!
If you are unfamiliar with How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb, this life-changing relationship “boot camp” is unlike anything else out there.
And we can say with complete confidence that the course alone is worth much more than $500.
But when you add to it all the bonus videos and material, the private online men’s support community, and the monthly LIVE zoom Q&A coaching calls, the value goes through the roof.
You can check out all of the details on the course HERE including some video previews of exactly how and what we teach.
And you know what makes it even more of a no-brainer? We have a 100% money back, no B.S. guarantee. Check it out for a couple of weeks and if it’s not your thing, then we return your money immediately.
“Every guy can benefit from this course whether married or separated, living with your wife, or not. You must commit to yourself and put in the work. It feels great to post questions, comments, or concerns in the private group and receive advice and support from men who have been there or are currently working on improving themselves and their relationships.” ~ How To Diffuse The Divorce Bomb Member
You Can’t Afford To Waste Any More Time Hoping Things Will Change
There is no treading water in a marriage crisis. It’s either getting better or spiraling down.
But you CAN take action to have a positive impact on your relationship and your life starting immediately.
“I am beginning to feel more confident that I will be better than just okay after all this. No matter what happens. Thanks to both of you for creating this course. It is full of so much real truth and wisdom that I just keep finding myself nodding my head in agreement, and laughing a bit!” ~ How To Diffuse The Divorce Bomb Member
We are looking forward to you joining this community of extraordinary men, hearing your story, and personally helping you navigate the tricky waters of your relationship.
You will get through this. You will not die. You will be ok. Those are the 3 Truths men facing divorce need to hear and believe.
Q: How do I find strength when I feel completely overwhelmed by divorce?
A: You start by remembering the 3 truths: You will get through this. You will not die. You will be okay. Your strength doesn’t come from her decisions — it comes from your inherent masculine value. That value is already inside you, even if you can’t feel it right now.
Q: Why does divorce make me feel terrified, alone, and like my whole life is collapsing?
A: Because your nervous system is in full-blown panic mode. You’re imagining futures you can’t control. But the truth is, you’re okay right now. Strength returns when you stop fighting the storm and start remembering who you are: a man built to last, built to survive, built to thrive.
Q: How can I stay calm and confident when my wife says “I need space” or wants a divorce?
A: You stop reacting from fear and start responding from clarity. Fear makes you cling, chase, or collapse. Confidence comes from grounding yourself, breathing, slowing your thinking, and reconnecting to your inner stability. You influence nothing when you’re panicking — everything shifts when you’re steady.
Q: Will I really be okay after divorce or separation? It doesn’t feel like it.
A: Every man in our community has felt exactly that — and every single one discovered he was far stronger than he thought. Your okayness is not in the marriage. It’s in you. When we help you reconnect with your internal security, the fear dissolves and your confidence comes back online.
Q: How do I stop suffering alone and actually get the support I need?
A: You take one courageous step: ask for help. The How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb community exists so you don’t have to carry this alone. When you talk to men who’ve walked this road, your anxiety drops, your confidence grows, and you finally feel understood instead of isolated.
Q: What can I do right now to start getting stronger during this divorce crisis?
A: Take action. Don’t sit in “I hope it gets better.” Watch the videos. Join the community. Ask your questions. Get on a call. Every step you take toward clarity builds strength. Divorce is either pulling you down or pulling you forward — and you get to decide which direction.
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