If You Knew How To Make Your Wife More Affectionate…Would You Do It?
You might not be a Spiderman fan – but it doesn’t matter.
When Ben Parker was talking to his nephew Peter Parker he said,
“…your father lived by a philosophy, a principle, really. He believed that if you could do good things for other people, you had a moral obligation to do those things! That’s what’s at stake here. Not choice. Responsibility.”
If you had a “Super Power” what would you do with it?
If you had the ability to do good things for people, would you do it?
This is a critical, mind-bending, life-changing question. A lot of guys don’t use their “Super Power”.
And you might not even know what yours is.
I do.
Here’s a hint.
You have a hidden masculine power to create trust, calmness, relaxation, safety, fun and physical attraction.
You have the power to induce those feelings in other people any time you want to. It’s not something you do – it’s a way of being.
The problem is you may not be very good at it yet. You might be like Spiderman when he first learned of his power and he made a freaking mess of everything – almost killed himself.
Here’s MY “Super Power”.
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I know how to help you get really, really good at YOUR Super Power. And I’m really good at it and I absolutely LOVE doing it.
In fact, it’s my moral obligation to tell you about it. It’s not a choice – it’s my responsibility.
Join me and some amazing men from around the country at the upcoming Retreats.
We have a powerful agenda lined up, a surprise guest and some outdoor fun in the mountains of Colorado.
You’ll have adventure during the day, campfires at night and life changing conversations.
You will get insights, answers and distinctions that will exponentially change the course you’re on right now.
You will get clarity on what you need to do and who you need to be to create the relationship you want and the life you secretly crave.
You will make friends for a lifetime. Do you have enough high quality friends in your life?
Anyway, that’s all I want to say.
It’s my duty.
I’d be doing you a disservice if I didn’t encourage you to come and join us – it WILL change your life for the better.
If you want in…I assure you that this will be the best money you’ll spend this year.
More information about this years retreats can be found here.
If you can’t make a retreat but still want to learn more about how to take a big step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more about how we can help here. We would be thrilled to help you get there – our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence.
You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there – and she doesn’t WANT to…trust me on that.
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Q: How do I figure out what my “masculine superpower” actually is?
A: Your real superpower isn’t a skill — it’s a way of being. It’s the ability to create trust, safety, fun and attraction without trying. Every man has this hidden masculine power. Most just never learned how to use it deliberately. When you calm down and lead yourself first, it begins to show.
Q: Why do I feel like I’m making a mess of things when I try to lead or connect?
A: Because you’re still in the “early Spiderman” stage — raw power with no training. Masculine presence takes practice. When you’re jittery, insecure or looking for validation, your superpower fires in the wrong direction. With coaching and clarity, you learn to channel it calmly and powerfully.
Q: How can I create more trust and attraction in my marriage without forcing it?
A: Attraction grows when you stop trying to get something and start being someone. A grounded man creates trust and desire by how he carries himself — calm voice, relaxed body, outcome independence. When you lead with presence instead of neediness, she feels safe enough to open again.
Q: Why does it feel like it’s my responsibility to fix the relationship?
A: Because deep down, you know leadership lives inside you. Not controlling her — controlling yourself. Ben Parker was right: if you can do good, you have a moral obligation to do it. Your responsibility is becoming the man who brings clarity, stability and confidence into the relationship.
Q: What if I don’t feel confident enough to use this ‘superpower’ yet?
A: Totally normal. Most men never had real mentorship from confident, grounded men. That’s why retreats and coaching work — you develop confidence through experience, feedback and brotherhood. When you’re surrounded by men who walk with integrity, your own strength wakes up fast.
Q: How will attending a men’s retreat actually change my life?
A: Because you step into an environment where your best self is the default, not the exception. Retreats give you clarity, connection, masculine energy and the kind of conversations you never get at home. You leave with new standards, new brothers, and a renewed sense of responsibility for who you want to be.
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